Doggy style
Doggy Style
Doggy style is one of the favourite sex positions in the bedroom for many couples, and we agree! Whether you're straight, gay, or anything in between, this position has got something for everyone. No wonder it’s one of the most widely used sex positions around the world.
What is Doggy Style?
In doggy style, the receiving partner gets down on all fours while the giving partner enters with the penis, dildo, or vibrator from behind, standing or kneeling. This sex position is all about deep, primal connection and the freedom to really go for it.
The receiving partner has little control over the sex, while the giving partner has more control and can therefore choose fast, deep, or hard penetration. That dominance for the giving partner is also the biggest reason why not everyone likes this position equally. However, the receiving partner can also take some control by determining the depth and speed of the lovemaking.
The Origins of Doggy Style
Ever wondered why it's called doggy style? It's pretty self-explanatory. Doggy style is named after how dogs mate. In Latin, it's even called coitus more ferarum, which literally means “intercourse in the manner of beasts”. The first recorded usage of the noun ‘doggy style’ dates back to the 1970s.
Benefits of Doggy Style
Now, let's talk about perks. In doggy style, the giver gets a great view and full access to stimulate their partner's erogenous zones. Plus, for some women, it's the perfect position to hit that sweet spot. But it's not all roses - it can feel a bit disconnected without that face-to-face contact, and some people find it a bit too intense.
Doggy Style Tips
Here are some ways to bring a more intimate connection in the doggy style position:
- Use a mirror so the receiving partner can see the giving partner. This makes eye contact possible, therefore bringing more romance to your intimate encounter.
- During sex, the giver can massage the receiving person (e.g., on the back), providing extra stimulation on top of penetration.
- To give the receiving partner more control in this position, they can hook their legs into those of the giving partner.
- Adding sex toys, particularly a vibrator to stimulate the receiving partner’s clitoris, heightens everyone’s pleasure.
- Remember to use lubricant for vaginal penetration, and certainly for anal sex. Doggy style will be even more pleasant and comfortable.
Exploring Doggy Style Variations
The same positions can get boring. Feeling adventurous? Try mixing it up with some variations on the classic doggy style position.
The Spoon Rack: Both partners must kneel. The giving partner is behind the receiving partner and must rest their hands on a higher surface.
Heavenly Staircase: The receiving partner has to kneel on a step, while the giving partner sits a few steps lower behind the receiver and violently penetrates them from behind.
Turtle: The receiving partner lies on their stomach while the giving partner lies on top with their legs on either side of the receiver. The giver leans on their arms and penetrates the receiver.
Terrain Exploration: Very similar to the 'turtle', but in this case, the legs of the giving partner must be between the legs of the receiving partner.
Standing Doggy Style: The receiving partner stands upright and rests their upper body on a (kitchen) table. The giving partner stands behind it and penetrates the receiver from behind.
Higher Doggy: The receiving partner leans on their hands and feet instead of their hands and knees. When a female is the receiving partner and she holds her thighs closer together, her vagina becomes narrower.